9 Psychological Tricks To Attract All People around You. And your circle.
How to attract anyone.
There are people who emit electromagnetic energy so much that everyone has access to them. They wish to be like them, to gain their friendship or to be accepted. And most surprising is that it is not entirely dependent on the appearance of these people.
Bright Side has found nine rules we must follow to become this kind of person.
An individual photo.
You need a unique image. However, the details are completely unique. After all, your first photo is something that makes even strangers. And we're not talking about beauty. It sounds complicated, but diversity can be expressed even in adversity and danger. Any of your unique features, whether it's speed, body language, facial expressions, perceptions, communication style, or clothing may make you more memorable.
Here are some examples of celebrity contact information:
Charlie Chaplin - mustache, suit, reed
Tilda Swinton - asexuality, no make-up
Winston Churchill - obesity, cigars
Joseph Stalin - mustache, pipe, mark
Adolf Hitler - a real mustache type, a feeling
Dita Von Teese - photo of '40s, red lipstick
Marilyn Monroe - hair color, maul
Salvador Dali - mustache, facial expressions
You need a big dream
In order to make people reach and appreciate you as a truly unique personality, you have to have a reason for being there. The desires, the goals, the desire to change something in the world. To fight for something. Because a person without a dream is a book without a concept. Why read it?
Be sure
To be generous, you have to be positive. You have the courage to make decisions, to be able to rely solely on you, not wait for outside help, and explain your ideas to others in a way they can understand.
People close to you cannot feel your confidence not only in behavior but also in government. Better to avoid phrases like "I think, I hope, I think, I expect, maybe, maybe."
Forget about complaints
Would you approve of him and want to be like someone who's always complaining? Of course not. People who work smart have a good idea. Avoid criticism, complaints, and negative articles. Even if everything is not good for your life, start a conversation that brings you joy and will bring your viewers the same.
Use gestures
Your behavior should reflect your confidence: do not sleep, do not give up on any objects or body parts, try to smile often, keep an eye on your helper, and protect the closed posture.
Usually, when you appear in public, make and feel like a celebrity in red carpet.
Be a great storyteller
Many people believe that the ability to make almost every story appeals to talent.
But that is not always the case. It is really a skill that can be learned. Just talk confidently. Use humor, especially self-esteem: the power to laugh at yourself. Don’t forget about body language, be positive, and stay positive. Don't worry if not all of your stories and jokes say "it works."
Tell your stories. After hearing something really interesting, people will share it with others.
Don't look away
When you speak to someone, always look at them. Sometimes a single piercing can mean more than a thousand words. Face-to-face shows that you are listening to your messenger and that you understand and accept them as a person.
Most importantly, when talking to someone at an event, you may be disturbed by external factors. Do not look at your cell phone or crowd as it may seem that you are looking for the most "right" sender.
Learn to listen to others.
There is no need to consider yourself the most important person in the world. A genuine interest in the lives of others can make people more like you because listening to others is a real art. When you listen to someone carefully and show interest in your conversation they start to feel needed and special.
Of course, you can't remember everything your distributor said
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