How to be an alpha male // with attractive personality

How to be an alpha male.

Method 1 of 4:

Very Good Look

1. Maintain your personal hygiene. You want to keep looking and smelling fresh. Shower daily, apply deodorant, and wear clean clothes.

Avoid strong cologne. Excessive odor can make people feel uncomfortable, and can damage health conditions such as asthma. You want a strong personality, not a strong smell.

2. Dress appropriately. Try to look better than the boys around you to stand out. For example, wear patterns, collared shirts, pretty pants, and maybe a tie. Do not wear shirts that advertise your favorite brand name or band; you want to advertise yourself. Learn How to Dress Well Relative for more advice.

Dressing well does not mean dressing, really. Your clothes should be neat, comfortable, and comfortable. Remember - clothes cover the window. If you give up confidence and strength, and command respect for your presence, your clothes will be second.

3. Join the gym and get ready. Staying in shape will not make you an alpha man - who has to come from within - but it will help your health and well-being. It also sends another signal: a person who takes good care of himself can take care of others, too.

4. Project confidence in your body language. The way you behave speaks volumes to those around you, without you making noise. Your posture, your hand gestures, and your posture - send signals to those around you about your location on earth. You want those signs to be strong and trustworthy, protective and small. [1] Here are some examples of authentic body language:

Stand or sit up. Don't sleep. Show off your full height in front of adults.

Squeeze your fingers. Press the fingers of both hands together, palms apart. The height of high-speed projects, as long as you do not touch your mouth easily.

2. Put your hands behind your back. This situation shows openness and confidence.

Look with the eyes (if culturally appropriate). Look at the person you are talking to. To avoid looking, try moving your eyes from one eye to another, then to the mouth. Briefly look away from the times.

Put your hands in your pockets, sticking your thumbs out. This means self-confidence, and perhaps a little limp.

5. Don’t be afraid to fill the room with your presence. Stand firm, use extra touch, and look relaxed and comfortable in your surroundings. See What You Can Look For You can access many tips to look completely free in any situation.

6. Give yourself. If you are not used to the look or feel confident, it may take some time to get used to it. This is normal. Work on building self-confidence. If you go downhill, remember that tomorrow is a new day. It will be easier to practice.

Try the power that comes before the challenge to help you feel stronger. If you need a toilet, go to the toilet.

Remind yourself of something you've done well in the past, and take a moment to feel proud.

Method 2 of 4:

Hard work

1. Develop new skills. By learning new skills and developing new skills, you keep your mind and body sharp and in shape. It helps you develop a set of circular skills that will help you become a go-to guy when people have questions. Be a man not just of style, but of something by studying the things that interest you, and transforming and adapting to each character. Learn how to put a fist, build a shed, walk on your own, make a perfect kick, survive in the jungle, or win the battlefield. Improve your mind by learning about architecture, art and music.

2. Protect yourself. Analyze all aspects of your identity, and embrace it. Never try to hide or change in order to please others. Instead, be a better version of who you already are.

Make money on doing something different. Are you a geeky person? Be the best geek you can be. In a wheelchair? That means you get to use your arms every day. Are you gay? Be a trusted homosexual. Don't let other people make you feel bad about who you are.

You will find that you have a number of shortcomings, such as lack of self-confidence or judgment at times. Tell yourself "We all have flaws. That doesn't make me a bad person. I'm working on it, and I'll be a better man."

A safe man does not allow the narrow definition of masculinity to overwhelm him. An unprotected man may feel that he should be 100% men all the time. But a confident man is not afraid to wear pink, bake cookies, cry when he needs to, play party tea with a little girl, or do other “feminine” things if he likes it. If some people think it doesn't make sense ... that's their problem. He still knows he's a man.

3. Take care of your responsibilities. The alpha man is not a slacker, and he does not allow other people to feel that they should take care of his own business. Pull your weight at home, on team projects, on homework, and on any other responsibility in life. Don't say "someone else will take care of it." Take the initiative.

4. Be sure. This cannot be overused. If you are too selfish and negatively believe in your own power, men and women alike will respond. [3] Do not confuse self-confidence with arrogance. Self-confidence reflects an inner calmness, certainty, and trust. Just arrogance and low self-esteem are turned backwards, and the perception people will have is that of an empty, insecure, male-dominated male alpha.

5. Find good examples. A good role model is someone who is confident, knowledgeable, respectful and kind to others. Look for people who have the qualities you like, and see how they react in different situations.

See how they talk, how they stand, and how they work. Alpha men tend to be upright and move easily and confidently.

See what they look like. Their hair, their clothes. Alpha men love men's fashion and know how to use it to make themselves look more attractive.

Method 3 of 4:

Communicating With Others

1. Listen. The alpha man, a true leader, spends more time listening than talking. Listen carefully and pay close attention, and people will respond. The more you listen without judging, the more people will open up to you, and they will tell you things they have never told anyone about. This is because they trusted you on the inside - a key feature of the alpha male.

Pretend everyone has something you like to teach you. An adult always learns new things and sharpens his skills.

Verify people's feelings when they open up to you. This helps them feel more confident, and they feel like they should have poured it out. It's a great way to show compassion - an important factor in any leader.

2. Treat people well, even if they have nothing to offer you. Be respectful when talking to children, the elderly, the homeless, and people with disabilities (whether they are as talented as everyone else or not). A weak man holds back those who can help him, and he does not care about or insult those who can. A really great man treats people "below" him as equals, and believes that everyone deserves respect and dignity.

Refuse to be prejudiced. Stop any prejudice you have against women, people of color, religious minorities, people with disabilities, the poor, the obese, and people from other groups who have been discriminated against.

3. Empower other people. While an insecure man may demolish other people, a confident man wants to share his skills and confidence with others, helping them to become better. He encourages them and celebrates their success.

An adult can teach other people, and be proud of their success.

4. Use humor to your advantage. That doesn't mean it's a clown of the room, but that you should be able to smile with real joy, laugh at yourself, or make fun of others without appearing bully or rude.

A good sense of humor can lighten the load.

When misleading others, beware of their self-confidence. Mocking is just about something you know someone else and not being insecure about it. For example, if your sister tends to be shorter, it's better to make fun of her for being small. But if he feels unsafe about it, you should choose something else to make him laugh.

5. Express your appreciation for the efforts of others. Let them know that you see the hard work and good work they are doing. Thank them for what they did for you, and commend them for their hard work.

6. Be honest. Some feel that alpha males will lie and cheat to get what they want, but this only applies to men who can be anything but alpha males. If you find that you have to trick someone into thinking that you are worth their time and energy, then it is really proof that you do not deserve it. Make sure you earn everything you earn by accepting a high fidelity policy. Be specific about who you are [4] at all times; everyone else can take it or leave it.

Do not hide your intentions. Let people know what you want.

Know the difference between being honest and being extraordinary. Sometimes, good non-judgment (such as "I think a blue dress suits you better") is better than being cruelly honest (like "you look bad at that").

Strive to be worthy of the trust of others. A sensible, enthusiastic, or thirsty person is not a good leader.

7. Show empathy. A great man cares about other people, and he is willing to show it. He takes time to listen and consider their views, and he often helps people when they are in a difficult situation.

8. Above all, be a leader. This means that you are not only managing the situation, but you have done it well. Start in your immediate area by becoming a leader in the workplace, helping your team work, or presenting yourself as your dog leader. Get used to being the kind of leader people want to follow - not just the first one who volunteered for the job.